Blog Challenge Day 8- Things I Want To Say to 3 People

Sorry for the delay in my blog challenge, life has gotten in the way of blogging again!!

Day 8: Three things you want to say to three different people right now

(Yeah, these are going to be vague because I never know who might stumble across my blog- the internet is a crazy place, anyone could see this. Lol.)

Letter One:

I'm not going to let what happened between us affect my future dating relationships. I am a stronger person emotionally because of you, and I'm also smarter. I know what stupid mistakes not to make in the future, and how not to be manipulated again, and for that, I thank you. I hope you have also learned from your mistakes and that you don't make them again. Congratulations and best wishes to you in life.

Letter Two:

I'm sure you feel I should start this letter with an apology, but honestly, I don't feel I have anything to apologize for. I don't feel that anything I said was intentionally wrong or hurtful- I believe I said it out of concern and love, and at the time, you misunderstood it. I'm not saying it was your fault, please don't think that. I just feel at that time you didn't want to hear what some of your friends had to say, and instead of just accepting it gracefully (whether you agreed or not), you pushed us away. I'm sorry that happened. I'm sorry you felt we were horrible, judgmental people, but just know it was out of love that we had those concerns, we were not judging at all. I wish you all the happiness in the world in your new life, you deserve it. I'm sorry not all of us will be there to celebrate your happiness, but I'm glad you finally have the happiness that you've always wanted. 

Letter Three:

I'm not sure what we have going on between us. Honestly, I don't know what I want it to be. But, I hope we figure this thing out soon, don't you?

XOXO!!

Blog Challenge Day 23- A Letter to A Younger Me

 

Day 23: Write a letter to your younger self.

 

Okay, I didn't realize until late last night this never posted, so, here it is a day late!

 

If I could write a letter to a younger version of myself, there are thing I would tell her that I don't want to post here, that's between us (okay, it's between me, myself, and I). :) Here are some highlights of what I would share from my letter:

 

-Always keep God and your faith as the number one priority in your life. There are going to be struggles and times when you don't understand why things are happening, but never lose hold of your faith. And don't let someone convince you your faith isn't enough.

-No matter what any guy tells you, you are worth waiting for. Don't let him convince you otherwise, he's not worth it in the end.

-Always be yourself- don't try to be someone different to impress anyone. Not everyone is going to like you, but that is okay. Your friends like you for you and that is all that matters.

-Tell your family and friends that you love them- everyday. You never know how much time you have with them. Hug them as though it's the last time you will ever see them.

-When someone asks you to watch the movie Meet the Feebles- run away screaming. Don't look back.

-Never let a guy come between you and a friend. He's not worth it.

-Heartbreaks hurt at the time, but the pain does go away. And you will learn something from each one.

-One day you will understand that your parents were right.

-Never stop writing, no matter what. It might not be the writing that you wanted to do, but you will enjoy it.

-Life might not turn out how you thought, but you will be happy.

 

XOXO!!